Archive for January, 2010

How can an intj introvert meet women to date?

Sunday, January 31st, 2010

Nearly impossible to be in social situations for long (as a matter of fact: 7 yrs sober alcoholic I think may have stemmed from coping issues among others perhaps)
every woman I’ve dated (which is very few) has been a hook-up, or the girl asking me out…
I’ve never really felt what I imagine would be a sense of fulfillment/accomplishment/satisfaction of really getting who I find unbearably appealing, to put it bluntly

Is it true that men generally find it easier to approach short women?

Sunday, January 31st, 2010

You have two women infront of you. Both are pretty and they both have a nice body. the one is tall and the other is short. Who would you approach and why?

What is a good place to meet non-shallow women?

Saturday, January 30th, 2010

Where is a good place to meet women who won’t dismiss you automatically if your looks don’t stack up? Bars and clubs are obviously out. No church, not religious. No school, finished with it.

How are you suppose to stand when approaching women?

Saturday, January 30th, 2010

believe it or not how you stand or walk when approaching women is a difference cause women can read body language very well. So when talking to a group of girls how should i stand when talking to them?

How To Approach Women

Friday, January 29th, 2010

Learning how to approach women is the single most critical thing you can do at this time to improve your dating life.

It’s a fact that every Friday night, a countless number of men around the globe, from California to Tokyo, slap on their best cologne and go to the nightclubs in the hopes of finding a girl. Sure, they might pretend like they’re only stepping out for a few drinks with their friends, but lots of of them are indeed aiming to get lucky tonight with a member of the opposite sex.

Well that’s where they make their first error: thinking of seduction in terms of “getting lucky.” A lot of men really think that hooking up with a babe at a nightclub is about luck, fate, or happening to be in the right place at the perfect moment.

These guys fail to grasp that when it comes to how to approach women, there are various “classic mistakes” that men make on a regular basis — ruining their chances without even knowing it — and that there are dependable STRATEGIES you can make use of to just about guarantee great results.

For one guy, “success” might mean having a conversation with an interesting chick and going home with her phone number. But for guys who’ve perfected their approach and conversation skills, success is defined another way. Ask them about how to approach women, and they’ll answer that anything short of a “same night lay” — getting a babe home with them TONIGHT — is a waste of a night.

The predicament is that 95% of guys have no clue how to approach a woman. And they’re too intimidated to approach women because of the significant amount of uncertainty that is part of this process.

Think about it. What goes through your mind when you catch sight of a hottie at a bar that you would love to meet? You may be thinking…

“I don’t have a chance. A woman THAT beautiful must already have a boyfriend.”
“I’m probably not her type.”
“She doesn’t look like she’s in the mood to be disturbed.”

And then of course, there’s the enduring male excuse…

“I’d like to talk to that girl, but I have no idea what to say!”

In this situation, what’s happeningis that you are merely imagining the potential NEGATIVE outcomes. This is because you’ve trained yourself to think that the most likely outcome, when you try to approach women, is that they won’t want to talk to you.

For men who have no idea how to approach women, this usually becomes the outcome. After suffering through this awkward process dozens, perhaps hundreds of times, these dudes stop approaching women altogether.

They think , “why bother? She’s just going to react the way the last 37 women did. She won’t be interested for some reason, and then I’ll have to experience the embarrassment of retreating and feeling like a reject.”

I’m here to tell you that you can find out how to approach women in a manner that is fun, playful, confident and most of all Tactical. I’ve got some very cool, specific “openers” you can apply with women that will make them smile, and capture their interest.

My team and I have tried out each of these powerful approach tactics out in the field literally hundreds of times, to make sure these are the very top ways to “break the ice” and set up an interaction.

Girls will no longer see you as some out of your depth, insecure guy who is hoping to NOT get dissed. Instead, girls will right away sense that you’re a guy who can bring MORE FUN to their night.

If you’re ready to learn our virtually unstoppable tactics for how to approach women and create INSTANT CHEMISTRY with attractive women, go to our site, download our free seduction manual, which is offered at the Mack Tactics website. It contains tons of tips on approaching women. So what are you waiting for?

How To Hire A Private Investigator To Catch A Cheating Husband

Friday, January 29th, 2010

Realizing that your husband is being unfaithful is one of a woman’s worst fears.

It can be even more agonizing to SUSPECT that you are being cheated on, and that your cheating lover is lying to your face…but you don’t have any verification or proof, only your suspicions and “gut instinct.”

Sadly, when a woman seriously suspects that she has a cheating husband, and that there is infidelity going on in their relationship, she is typically right. But it can be a serious mistake for her to confront a cheating husband when there is no solid proof. It’s too easy for a dishonest husband to just deny the allegations, and turn it around on his wife — accusing HER of being paranoid.

In many situations, the fastest and most efficient way to confirm your suspicions, get the proof, and move forward with your life is to hire a private investigator. The answer for many women is to hire a private investigator. There are PI services in practically every city, and you can usually call them and receive a free consultation.

There are many indications of infidelity that you can spot yourself, and use to “build your case” against your cheating husband, but there are other reasons why you should consider employing a private investigator.

First of all, you don’t want to break the law and get yourself into big trouble. Although all kinds of “surveillance technology” and “catch-a-cheater” devices are for sale online, it may be totally illegal for a non-licensed person (such as yourself) to utilize them. If you install software on your partner’s computer to monitor what he’s doing on the internet, or tape his phone calls, or follow him and take pictures of him while he is with another woman, you could actually be arrested and go to jail!

There are important privacy laws and anti-stalking laws that you must follow, even if you are trying to catch a cheating husband. Breaking these laws can be a federal offense, and most people are not even aware of this.

This is when a good private investigator can be tremendously useful. They are familiar with the laws in your state, and as licensed professionals, they have the ability (and the training and experience) to collect evidence in ways that you would not be allowed to. The PI will typically conduct his investigation, and once he has enough information, he will present it to you. If this eventually leads to you seeking a divorce, the evidence will be admissible since it was collected by an impartial third party.

On the other hand, if you were to “stalk” your husband and clandestinely record his activities, this evidence would be discounted — and you could wind up in trouble.

The last thing you want to do is incorrectly accuse your husband of having an extramarital affair.This kind of wrong accusation could destroy your relationship as much as an actual affair. If you tend to be a jealous or suspicious person by nature, then it can be a good idea to talk to a private investigator who will approach this without any bias, and focus purely on seeking out the facts.

You will need to be prepared to lay out some money for this. Infidelity investigations are not cheap and can in some cases run into the thousands of dollars, depending on what type of services you require, and if the investigation will be complex and involve a lot of moving around. (For example, if the investigator needs to follow your husband on business trips.) Hourly rates for investigators are commonly around $100, and most call for a retainer up front which is equal to at least a few hours of work.

But this can also be the best investment you will ever make. For a lot of women, you can’t put a price on finding out the reality about a cheating husband — and getting the closure you need, so that you can move on with your life and find the happiness that you deserve.

Next I want to I show you the seven signs of a cheating lover (which most people would never suspect). This is very powerful information if you want to know how to catch cheating. Don’t waste another moment, or suffer through another sleepless night…it’s time to get at the TRUTH.

Why do people say that a great place to meet women is in the supermarket (or grocery?

Friday, January 29th, 2010

store)??? I couldn’t think of a worse place beside a mosque in Saudi Arabia. I have NEVER even come CLOSE to meeting a woman in a supermarket while shopping. No one gives a crap about you. So why do people talk nonsense?

How can I approach beautiful women without being intimidated by them?

Friday, January 29th, 2010

What is the Best dating site to meet Japanese Women that is free-low cost?

Thursday, January 28th, 2010

I am looking for one a dating site to meet Japanese women in Japan since I am currently still overseas. Can anyone recommend one to me that is low cost or free? Or What is the most popular web dating site in Japan ? Keep in mind I am an American Citizen so probably something geared towards women interested in foreigners and not all in Japanese ^-^

Is it okay to approach women in places other than bars and nightclubs?

Thursday, January 28th, 2010

I hate those places, and I don’t drink, so I feel out of place there. I was just wondering how girls felt about being approached in other places or if they only want to meet a man in a bar.