Couples enter into marriage thinking it can last forever, but to make it work takes a great deal of effort. You have to be willing to compromise and put in the work that must be done. If you’re not prepared for these realities, it’s possible the only thing you possibly can think of when problems come up is to leave the relationship, even though it probably is the best thing you have got going for you.

Maybe you’re one of those people now, running into issues and never realizing what to do about them. You recognize that if you wish to save your marriage, you need to start doing something now.

There’s plenty of marriage advice available, and it is good to learn all you possibly can, but you need to watch out and make sure you fully understand the impact that following any given recommendation could have. Whereas free advice online may be of assistance, you do not always know the source or degree of experience that advice is coming from. If the scenario is serious, it may be worthwhile to check into some more reliable sources where you can acquire a fuller understanding than you ever will get from an article such as this.

Do not overlook the public library, I have discovered great information on this and other subjects freely available, though what is immediately accessible is sometimes more generalized information than I care to wade through when I am on the lookout for a more direct answer to an issue.

Additionally, don’t be afraid to ask people you already know for their perspective. Many more people than you assume have gone through problems comparable to yours, even though it is probably not public knowledge, and many can really offer some precious tips.

And of course, there are the specialized books and courses offered on-line, a few of which are very specific to certain kinds of problems, and whose authors are very active and skilled in dealing with most of these situations. As an illustration, check out this Save The Marriage review.

Wherever you choose to seek answers to your marriage or relationship issues, so long as you’re willing to look you still have a superb fighting chance. Just don’t give up and walk away because it seems like the simplest or only way out. If what you’ve got is worth protecting, and it normally is if you’ve gotten this far, know that a solution is out there for you, just keep your eyes open.

You can expect to always have a little bit of a cloud hanging over you when you’ve been caught cheating. Your lover is just not going to forget about your indiscretion easily. It’s going to take some time for them to regain confidence in themselves, the relationship and your commitment to the relationship.

Infidelity and affairs have a way of inflicting such severe emotional distress that a person doesn’t just “get over it”. It’s going to take lots of work to restore trust after infidelity, but here are a few ideas to get you moving into the proper direction.

Keep your life particularly open and transparent. Share all of your actions intimately and make sure your mate knows where you are and that they can locate you if they need to. This little bit of assurance goes a long way to placing their thoughts at ease.

Spend more time with your spouse, doing things you each like, talking and laughing together. Bonding in this manner is very important to the well being of any relationship, and in this case it is all the more important to the healing and long term success of your relationship, and can actually save your relationship after cheating.

Additionally, when you are talking, talk about your hopes and goals and make sure you show that your other half is a big part of them. Even go as far as to make long and shorter term plans together, be it planning a trip, determining your financial goals or speculating on what it will likely be like when you get rid of the youngsters and grow old together. This kind of talk will imply that you are not going anywhere, and give your partner a warm fuzzy sense of security.

It’s not going to happen quick or be particularly simple, but you may restore the belief that was lost due to a foolish mistake. Get to “work” on it at once, and you will slowly but surely see the dividends in a relationship that grows stronger every day.

Learning how to approach women is the single most critical thing you can do at this time to improve your dating life.

It’s a fact that every Friday night, a countless number of men around the globe, from California to Tokyo, slap on their best cologne and go to the nightclubs in the hopes of finding a girl. Sure, they might pretend like they’re only stepping out for a few drinks with their friends, but lots of of them are indeed aiming to get lucky tonight with a member of the opposite sex.

Well that’s where they make their first error: thinking of seduction in terms of “getting lucky.” A lot of men really think that hooking up with a babe at a nightclub is about luck, fate, or happening to be in the right place at the perfect moment.

These guys fail to grasp that when it comes to how to approach women, there are various “classic mistakes” that men make on a regular basis — ruining their chances without even knowing it — and that there are dependable STRATEGIES you can make use of to just about guarantee great results.

For one guy, “success” might mean having a conversation with an interesting chick and going home with her phone number. But for guys who’ve perfected their approach and conversation skills, success is defined another way. Ask them about how to approach women, and they’ll answer that anything short of a “same night lay” — getting a babe home with them TONIGHT — is a waste of a night.

The predicament is that 95% of guys have no clue how to approach a woman. And they’re too intimidated to approach women because of the significant amount of uncertainty that is part of this process.

Think about it. What goes through your mind when you catch sight of a hottie at a bar that you would love to meet? You may be thinking…

“I don’t have a chance. A woman THAT beautiful must already have a boyfriend.”
“I’m probably not her type.”
“She doesn’t look like she’s in the mood to be disturbed.”

And then of course, there’s the enduring male excuse…

“I’d like to talk to that girl, but I have no idea what to say!”

In this situation, what’s happeningis that you are merely imagining the potential NEGATIVE outcomes. This is because you’ve trained yourself to think that the most likely outcome, when you try to approach women, is that they won’t want to talk to you.

For men who have no idea how to approach women, this usually becomes the outcome. After suffering through this awkward process dozens, perhaps hundreds of times, these dudes stop approaching women altogether.

They think , “why bother? She’s just going to react the way the last 37 women did. She won’t be interested for some reason, and then I’ll have to experience the embarrassment of retreating and feeling like a reject.”

I’m here to tell you that you can find out how to approach women in a manner that is fun, playful, confident and most of all Tactical. I’ve got some very cool, specific “openers” you can apply with women that will make them smile, and capture their interest.

My team and I have tried out each of these powerful approach tactics out in the field literally hundreds of times, to make sure these are the very top ways to “break the ice” and set up an interaction.

Girls will no longer see you as some out of your depth, insecure guy who is hoping to NOT get dissed. Instead, girls will right away sense that you’re a guy who can bring MORE FUN to their night.

If you’re ready to learn our virtually unstoppable tactics for how to approach women and create INSTANT CHEMISTRY with attractive women, go to our site, download our free seduction manual, which is offered at the Mack Tactics website. It contains tons of tips on approaching women. So what are you waiting for?

Realizing that your husband is being unfaithful is one of a woman’s worst fears.

It can be even more agonizing to SUSPECT that you are being cheated on, and that your cheating lover is lying to your face…but you don’t have any verification or proof, only your suspicions and “gut instinct.”

Sadly, when a woman seriously suspects that she has a cheating husband, and that there is infidelity going on in their relationship, she is typically right. But it can be a serious mistake for her to confront a cheating husband when there is no solid proof. It’s too easy for a dishonest husband to just deny the allegations, and turn it around on his wife — accusing HER of being paranoid.

In many situations, the fastest and most efficient way to confirm your suspicions, get the proof, and move forward with your life is to hire a private investigator. The answer for many women is to hire a private investigator. There are PI services in practically every city, and you can usually call them and receive a free consultation.

There are many indications of infidelity that you can spot yourself, and use to “build your case” against your cheating husband, but there are other reasons why you should consider employing a private investigator.

First of all, you don’t want to break the law and get yourself into big trouble. Although all kinds of “surveillance technology” and “catch-a-cheater” devices are for sale online, it may be totally illegal for a non-licensed person (such as yourself) to utilize them. If you install software on your partner’s computer to monitor what he’s doing on the internet, or tape his phone calls, or follow him and take pictures of him while he is with another woman, you could actually be arrested and go to jail!

There are important privacy laws and anti-stalking laws that you must follow, even if you are trying to catch a cheating husband. Breaking these laws can be a federal offense, and most people are not even aware of this.

This is when a good private investigator can be tremendously useful. They are familiar with the laws in your state, and as licensed professionals, they have the ability (and the training and experience) to collect evidence in ways that you would not be allowed to. The PI will typically conduct his investigation, and once he has enough information, he will present it to you. If this eventually leads to you seeking a divorce, the evidence will be admissible since it was collected by an impartial third party.

On the other hand, if you were to “stalk” your husband and clandestinely record his activities, this evidence would be discounted — and you could wind up in trouble.

The last thing you want to do is incorrectly accuse your husband of having an extramarital affair.This kind of wrong accusation could destroy your relationship as much as an actual affair. If you tend to be a jealous or suspicious person by nature, then it can be a good idea to talk to a private investigator who will approach this without any bias, and focus purely on seeking out the facts.

You will need to be prepared to lay out some money for this. Infidelity investigations are not cheap and can in some cases run into the thousands of dollars, depending on what type of services you require, and if the investigation will be complex and involve a lot of moving around. (For example, if the investigator needs to follow your husband on business trips.) Hourly rates for investigators are commonly around $100, and most call for a retainer up front which is equal to at least a few hours of work.

But this can also be the best investment you will ever make. For a lot of women, you can’t put a price on finding out the reality about a cheating husband — and getting the closure you need, so that you can move on with your life and find the happiness that you deserve.

Next I want to I show you the seven signs of a cheating lover (which most people would never suspect). This is very powerful information if you want to know how to catch cheating. Don’t waste another moment, or suffer through another sleepless night…it’s time to get at the TRUTH.

You know that every Saturday night, countless guys around the world, from California to Berlin, splash on their cologne and head to the nightclubs in the hopes of finding a girl. Sure, they might pretend like they’re merely going out to socialize with their buddies, but lots of of them are indeed aiming to get lucky tonight with a girl.

And that’s where they make their first error: viewing their mission tonight in terms of “getting lucky.” The vast majority of dudes really believe that hooking up with a girl at a bar is about luck, fate, or being in the right place at the perfect time.

They fail to understand that when it comes to how to approach women in bars, there are various “classic errors” that men make all the time — tarnishing their chances without even being aware of it — and that there are dependable techniques you can use to practically guarantee success.

For one guy, “success” might mean meeting a cute girl and going home with a phone number. For guys who’ve mastered the “game” of pickup, success is defined differently.

Ask them what their goals are when they go out to the bar, and they’ll say that anything short of a “same night lay” — getting a babe home with them TONIGHT — is a wasted evening.

The predicament is that 95% of guys have no clue how to approach girls and generate attraction. And they’re too intimidated to approach women because of the considerable amount of UNCERTAINTY involved.

Think about it. What goes through your mind when see a girl at a bar that you would LOVE to meet? You may be thinking…

“A girl THAT good-looking must already have a boyfriend.”
“She doesn’t look like she’s in the mood to be approached.”
“I’m probably not her type.”

Or, the typical male excuse…

“I want to move toward her, but I have no clue what I’m supposed to say to her!”

What’s happening here is that you are only picturing the possible NEGATIVE outcomes. This is because you’ve conditioned yourself to believe that the most likely result, when you approach women in bars, is that women will ignore you or simply won’t be interested.

For guys who don’t know how to get girls, this usually IS the result. And after going through this routine dozens, perhaps hundreds of times, these guys stop approaching women in bars completely.

They figure, “why bother? She’s only going to react the way the last 37 girls did. She won’t be interested for some reason, and then I’ll have to suffer the embarrassment of walking away and feeling like a reject.”

I’m here to tell you that you can learn how to approach girls in a way that is confident, playful and most of all Tactical. There are some powerful, specific “openers” you can utilize with girls that will make them smile, and engage their attention.

We’ve tested them out in the field literally hundreds of times, to make sure these are the very top ways to “break the ice” and launch an interaction.

Girls WON’T see you as some clumsy, insecure guy who is hoping to NOT get turned down. Instead, hot chicks will immediately sense that you’re a person who can add MORE FUN to their evening.

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How To Approach Women At Work

Just about every man I’m aware of (including myself) has been in this state of affairs before: there’s a stunner you work alongside, or who works in the same building, and you’d love to to be MORE than her “colleague.”

You would like to make something happen with this girl and take it to a romantic level! But you DON’T make it happen, because you can only imagine the possible UNDESIRABLE results.

As you would expect, the #1 negative outcome that men fear is, “if I try to get a date with her and she rejects me, it will be utterly AWKWARD having to see her at my job from now on! I wouldn’t be able to face her again…”

The bottom line is, whether you’re trying to figure out how to approach women at work, or in any other atmosphere, it’s LIMITING BELIEFS like these that immobilize us, and stop us from going for it.

The same dude who doesn’t know have the skills to approach women at work will probably find it just as hard to walk up to girls at a nightclub. He’ll tell himself things like:

“A girl THAT hot must already be ‘taken’.”
“I’m probably not her type.”
“She looks like she isn’t in the mood to be disturbed right now.”

Or, the favorite male excuse…

“I really want to go talk to her, but I’m not sure what I’m supposed to say!”

Why do you cripple yourself with these limiting beliefs? Because you believe that the most likely result when you approach women is FAILURE.

And so, your nervous system is conditioned to equate approaching women with PAIN.

Well, what if I could show you how to “reprogram” yourself so that you view approaching women in a totally different way? What if you could learn how to approach women at work in a style that is totally fun, confident and playful?

And furthermore, what if I gave you a method that makes it literally IMPOSSIBLE for you to get blown off?

I’m not kidding. There’s an approach technique that I want to show you right now, and if you use it when you approach women at work there’s simply NO WAY that it can mess you up.

In essence, it’s a brilliant “stealth” way of getting a date with her, without having to ask her on a regular “date”.

I guess that might sound a bit weird, but believe me, this strategy is super effective.

I used to work with a stunner at my business who was a incredibly cute Asian girl (and totally single), and for months I wanted to ask her out.

I guess my interest in her was obvious, because one day a friend of mine at work pulled me aside and explained to me how to approach women at work. (This dude with the advice was a TOTAL player back in his day…now he married and settled down, but he was happy to give me some quick advice.)

The dude walked me through a way to approach women at work that has NEVER disappointed me since. No rejection, no clumsiness, no humiliation…just perfect results.

One of the reasons why this method of approaching women at work is so brilliant is that you NEUTRALIZE her #1 concern: that if the two of you wind up sleeping together, the word might spread and become the subject of “office gossip.”

You’re going to drop a very subtle hint to her about you being a DISCREET dude. In other words, she’ll know that if she goes out with you and it leads to a hook-up, it’s going to be a secret between you and her.

Of course, you’re not going to actually declare that you are a discreet guy. When you use this strategy, you’re going to plant this “discretion seed” in her subconscious psyche by using a certain “language trick.”

If you want to know how to approach women at work, this trick makes it FUN and EASY. And, you don’t even need to worry about getting rejected — because the way you’re going to “frame” this appointment, her turning you down won’t even be a possibility!

OK, I don’t want to keep you waiting any longer. Visit our page on the secrets of how to approach women at work. You’ll find some brutally clever, effective strategies that are going to elevate your confidence and skills.

If you’re ready to learn how to approach a woman in any situation, master these tactics and get started now!

If you know about the world of PUAs (pickup artists) and the techinques we use to seduce females, then you’re probably aware of Sinn.

Sinn is absolutely one of the most infamous pickup artists in the seduction community, and has created many revolutionary ideas that pertain to picking up and flirting with women.

The other day I spoke with him about Sinn PUA Tactics (you can check out these 90 minutes of explosive video modules by visiting our Sinn PUA page), and he explained a lot of his methodology (and told some extraordinary hook-up stories) — and Sinn made one comment that really caught my attention.

Sinn said, “fun is the ultimate attraction switch.”

This sounds rather simple and obvious on the surface, but this is actually very powerful advice. It’s also a fundamental element of the Sinn PUA system.

Making sure that the girl has FUN with you may sound obvious, but a lot of guys really mess this up. For example, when the average guy tries to talk to a girl in a bar, he always asks her the same old predictable questions. He asks her a bunch of standard things about herself, and tells her basic things about himself. He thinks the conversation is going well as long as she keeps talking to him, even though he isn’t really making any forward progress.
But more often than not, after 5 or 10 minutes of this pointless conversation — or after she finishes the drink he eagerly bought for her — she excuses herself (to go “find her friend,” or whatever), and the interaction is over. He never created a real connection with her, so even if he did manage to get her phone number, he’s lucky if she even remembers who he is when he call her the next day.

On the other hand, the Sinn PUA viewpoint towards injecting FUN into the scenario is crucial. Always make it a point to RAISE the energy level (or “fun level”) of the girl, or the group of girls, that you are interacting with. They may not be out tonight to try to meet their dream guy. But they are definitely here to have fun. Make them think that YOU are the guy who holds the keys to an awesome, memorable night, and women won’t want to leave your side.

This PUA Sinn tactic is totally essential if you want to “shift gears” and get this girl back to your place later on tonight. The “fun” approach is a key part of building sexual chemistry and showcasing yourself as a “prize” that women want to win — instead of being the average guy who doesn’t know what to say next, simply hoping to “get lucky.”
So how, exactly, do you avoid having typical, predictable conversations with girls and flip the “fun” switch?

We’ll explain all of these methods in our Sinn PUA package — and if you start using these simple techniques with women when you go out, be prepared to start experiencing a whole new level of success with women.

Hey, this is Dean Cortez from Mack Tactics with some more strategies on how to take your game to a new level.

Here is a letter from a reader that asks a very important question about how to get girls, and then I’ll give my answer…

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Yo Dean,

There’s this girl that I’ve felt attracted to for a LONG time. A couple of weeks ago her boyfriend broke up with her.

So I was hanging out with her a few nights ago, and I decided to finally to say to her, “Hey, in all honesty, would you ever date a guy like me?”

She told me, “Well, honestly…you’re too nice. For some reason, I like jerks. I know that sounds crazy, but it’s the truth.”

I had no idea how to answer that. So I just played it off like I was joking, and wasn’t really into her, but inside I felt crushed.

I guess it’s true what they say: “nice guys finish last.” I can’t wrap my mind around this, Dean — why women always seem to go for guys who are liars and jerks, while nice guys like myself get left out in the cold.

I hope you have some good advice on this…

- Frank, Chicago

>>>DEAN CORTEZ ANSWERS:>>>

Dean Cortez here. Before I got my skills and confidence with women and mastered this “game,” I used to be a classic example of a Nice Guy.

When I reflect on how many girls I COULD have scored with…but didn’t, because my weak “Nice Guy” personality screwed everything up…I want to kick myself!

Back in those days, when I was attracted to a girl, I would always make myself available to her. I’d talk with her on the phone, or on the Internet, for as long as she wanted to. If she asked me to meet up and do something, I’d put aside whatever I was doing and go see her.

If she was having some drama with whatever dude she was dating at the time, I’d listen to her and try to be a sympathetic friend.

The bottom line was, instead of working on making her feel SEXUAL ATTRACTION towards me, I behaved like her “friend” who didn’t have any romantic intentions.

I tried to seem as if I wasn’t like “those other guys” who only wanted to sleep with her.

Of course, the whole time I was pretending to be “Mr. Nice Guy,” all I could THINK about was getting intimate with that girl…

I made the big mistake that a lot of guys guys make — thinking that building a FRIENDSHIP first was going to get me the sexual relationship later, if only I was patient enough.

But as you probably know, it never pans out this way. The guy keeps treading water in the “Friend Zone” until one of two things happens (and both outcomes are bad):

1. One night he finally decides to confess to her what he really wants — and it’s a terribly awkward moment that results in a rejection.

2. Or, she starts dating another guy who doesn’t want her “Nice Guy” friend hanging around. So, she stops hanging out him completely.

(Think about it, if you were dating a girl, would you want her “Nice Guy” buddy hanging around her all the time, obviously hoping to hook up with her? Of course not, you’d tell your girl to stop spending time with him.)

Look, I want to clarify some false beliefs about Nice Guys and Bad Boys — because the reality is, “Nice Guys” really aren’t as honest and sincere as they like to think they are.

Actually, Nice Guys lie MORE than Bad Boys do

Put it this way…

When a Nice Guy is always hanging around a woman he is HOPING to hook up with, everything he does is a deception!

The whole “friendship” he is building with the girl is phony. He really just wants to sleep with her! He is using this friendship as a TACTIC to try to get what he is truly after.

Unfortunately, it’s a very ineffective tactic. It never really works. And don’t think you’re fooling the girl: if she knows that she is sexually attractive, and she knows you’re not gay, then obviously she knows you want to sleep with her.

Women know what the Nice Guy is REALLY after. But she’s never going to give it to him, because he isn’t demonstrating any of the qualities that she finds SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE in a man.

The Nice Guy is showing weakness instead of confidence. He’s also showing that he is completely available to spend as much time as possible with this girl, instead of being a man with a busy social life and OTHER options.

(Don’t forget, girls want a guy who is desired by other women! They are highly competitive!)

Bad Boys DO have these qualities that women are PROGRAMMED to pursue. And when Bad Boys talk to women, they do so in a flirty, sexual, masculine way.

I have a good buddy who is total Bad Boy with women. He’s not some tattooed UFC fighter, rock musician, or strip club bouncer. In fact, he wears a suit every day to his 9-to-5 corporate job.

But when he interacts with women, he projects Bad Boy energy. This means he is playful and flirtatious — and he also acts like he is not easily impressed, no matter how attractive she is.

I was hanging out with him at a club last night. He said to a girl…

“I hope your boyfriend isn’t here, because I’m about to totally flirt with you. How can I not, when you’re wearing a dress like that?”

He delivered this opener with a confident smile and the correct body language. He then transitioned into the conversation with no delay (this is all explained in the Mack Tactics “Ultimate Approach” book), and started moving things in the right direction.

He asked her some clever questions to get her sharing things about herself, and then he said to her:

“You’re actually pretty cool, it’s a shame that it would never work out between us. You’re nothing like the girls I usually date.”

Then he immediately changed the subject. He didn’t give her any further explanation — which messed with her head a bit, and made her want to PROVE that she was worthy of dating a guy him!

A short time later he started talking to her about how he’s a big fan of getting massages. He said to her, “If you know how to give awesome massages, then this MIGHT work out between us. If not, it’s ok, I can be your wingman tonight and help you meet someone.”

(This is a fun game to play with women. Tell her you’re going to be HER wingman! Then point out some guys in the room that you know she will TOTALLY NOT be into, and offer to hook her up…she will laugh and squirm…then keep teasing her and flirting.)

Then he used another classic “Bad Boy” move on her: he WALKED AWAY.

Yes! He told her he had to go say hi to some people and that he’d come back and talk to her a little later.

Then he walked away and hung out with me and my buddies for a while. We were all joking around and having a good time, and the whole time, the girl was WATCHING him and WAITING for him to come back and keep talking to her!

Eventually, he did…and a short time after that, he used a “Deal Closer” technique to pull her out of the venue and bring her home.

The *trick* to getting really good with girls is to add a “Bad Boy Edge” to your game that conveys confidence and masculinity.

I’m not saying you should ever behave like a jerk, or disrespect women. Girls are not “into” those qualities. Rather, they will ACCEPT these qualities from a Bad Boy who she is strongly attracted to.

You can be the best of both worlds: a laidback, polite, respectful guy, but one who also has the BAD BOY EDGE that makes women desire you in a sexual way — not just “as a friend.”

Right now you can visit our how to get girls website and download a FREE 75-page guide that is filled with tactics for taking your game to a whole new level.

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Bad Boy Seduction is mostly about understanding how to push a woman’s “attraction buttons.”

Bad Boys who are successful with women understand that every time we talk to a woman, there are signals and messages flying back and forth that we aren’t even consciously aware of.

when you send the WRONG signals, girls are going to be instinctively turned off no matter how good you look, or how interesting you are to talk to.

Here are some Bad Boy Seduction tips to help you send the RIGHT signals to women, and push their “attraction switches.”

When you talk to a girl, be aware of how you angle your body. Men tend to talk to each other at angles to avoid confrontation. Women face each other head-on and maintain eye contact. You should engage them the same way.

Handshakes are also important. Usually, this is your first opportunity at “keno” (establishing physical contact.) Our hands are filled with tactile nerves.

Also, women are attracted to guys with deeper voices. This suggests high testosterone levels, which is an indicator of strength and reproductive ability.

The most attractive way to talk to women is slowly (with pauses), and in a slightly deeper voice than you normally use. Combined with eye contact, this can have a hypnotic effect. This is one of the keys to pulling off a successful Bad Boy Seduction.

Also, talk at the same pace she does. This enhances the sense that the two of your are connecting and bonding.

Next, mirror her body language. Couples who are attracted to each other tend to subconsciously “mirror” each other.

By the way, DON’T fidget. This sends the message that you are nervous, and will trigger the release of stress chemicals in her brain.

When these Bad Boy Seduction tactics are used correctly, the woman will feel like she is bonding with you and her brain will release dopamine, which actually elevates her mood.

At this point, you can pull off a same night seduction by continuing to direct the flow of the conversation, and leading it into areas that make her feel increasingly comfortable and attracted to you.

I believe that Japanese women are some of the most exotic and attractive Asian women.

But if you want to learn how to pick up Japanese girls, you’ve first got to be aware of some of the important differences between their culture, and yours.

Here are three quick pieces of advices to remember as you learn how to pick up Japanese girls…

1. I’ve figured out many different ways to approach Japanese girls and initiate conversations, but one of my favorites is the “cell phone” method.

Japanese people have a strong love for high-tech gadgets, and beautiful Japanese girls are usually walking around with a new, popular model of cell phone.

When I see a cute Japanese girl that I want to meet, I typically only need to wait a few minutes before she pulls out her phone to check her text messages, or call someone.

When she ends her call, I’ll approach her in a friendly manner and say, “Pardon me, could you tell me what kind of phone you have? I need to buy a birthday gift for a friend of mine, and I know she’d love a new cell phone. Yours looks really cool..”

The Japanese girl will usually be happy to tell you about her cool phone, and its features. Ask her if you can try out the built-in camera, and take a picture of her. (Japanese girls LOVE posing for pictures.)

She will then huddle in close with you to see how her picture turned out. Now you’ve closed the “physical gap,” and you’re laughing and chatting with her.

2. Make a specific plan to see her again. Don’t offer a vague suggestion like, “Maybe if you’re free sometime, we could hang out and do something.”

Japanese girls respect a man with a PLAN. A man who is not afraid to lead. When you make a vague suggestion about seeing her again, you’re only going to confuse her and cause her to tune out.

Instead, lay out a plan that she can easily agree to. Tell her there’s a great new restaurant or cafe you heard about, that you’re planning to try out next weekend, and suggest that she come along with you. Japanese girls enjoy dining out and love a variety of different cuisines.

3. When it’s time to meet her, always be punctual. Japanese culture runs on very tight schedules. In Japan, there is no such thing as being “fashionably late,” the way American women will typically show up 15 or 20 minutes late to their dates.

Be right on time, because you can expect her to do the same. If you arrive late, she will take it as a sign of disrespect — that you don’t feel she is important.

These are just a few fast pointers. Learning how to pick up Japanese girls involves knowing a lot of other things about their culture, and how to make them feel comfortable and attracted when they are with you. It’s all explained in the Secrets Of Dating Asian Women program.