I’m 24 but I look 18. I am working on a Master’s degree and I’m very mature, but I look like I’m fresh out of highschool. I have always dated girls that were younger, much younger in fact than me. Do I approach these older women (26+) that are probably already established and settled, in a different way? Should I be more direct with them or what?
At that age 28 it still all depends on the woman.Some are still easy to approach in a fun way.It is also on the surroundings too.Like if your at a office u would approach her business like..Straight forward and ask her to lunch.But if it’s a night club or something like that then it’s always nice to have a man approach u in a fun loving way. Use your instincts u sound like a pretty level headed person.So trust yourself and I’m sure you’ll do fine.Good luck
Considering these older females have been sleeping around alot, which is usually the case in the USA, you will need more game.
These females will tell you to be ‘direct’ but how often has a female given you good advice that works? They are telling you what they think ideallly happens, not what really happens. Game, not "honesty" is what really works.
The avg 27 yr old female has had about 18 "partners", or twice the # of a guy her age.
Women in America are "free"……ie. hoes.
You need game, so try a site like bristollair.com to learn.
Women over 25 are usually tired of the game. Direct is the way to go, I’m not saying turn off the charm, but no one liners, no games. If you want to ask her out just ask her out. If you want to call just call. No waiting a certain amount of hours, just pick up the phone. They also want a man to be mature and demonstrate responsibility.
Older women want someone who’s very mature, financially stable and are completely honest. Just be very straightfoward with them about what you want and are looking for, but don’t be rude. Treat them with respect and use old fashioned values. GOod LUck!
Older women are "played up".. they know the tricks & all… so better be straight when talking to them as they want to get settled & raise a family rather than being simply "get-in, get-off, get-out".
Younger women are full of energy & could be easily seduced & you can spread the charm again as you had been doing it.
They are all the same with a few small differences. Don’t use the modern slang on them, talk like you have some intelligence (I know you do) but above all be yourself. I’m sure there’s a lot of women in college who would love to have a young looking guy like yourself as a friend plus. Just remember, they are more mature than you’re used to so treat them like they are but still have fun like you would with the younger girls.
I’ve been there and done that having gone through six years of college and I’m 50 years old.
All women like to be treated nicely.
Good luck and have fun.