I can approach and say hi and maybe say something lame to start the conversation. But that's all i know!! After that, i go blank. Can someone please share their tactics? I am desperate.
I can approach and say hi and maybe say something lame to start the conversation. But that's all i know!! After that, i go blank. Can someone please share their tactics? I am desperate.
Personally, I'd prefer a guy to just say hello, and maybe say something lame. The fellows who come on suave and debonair with highfalutin lines can seem pretty insincere. I often get the feeling that they only want to score. I look for a real guy who would enjoy my company as well as score lol.
Not every woman you approach will want to converse with you, but most will respond to sincerity. If she seems receptive after your lame comment, tell her that you were attracted by her pretty eyes, or her style. If that works, ask about her profession. Try to find some common ground to start a conversation. If she is giving you one-word answers and not looking in your eyes, walk away.
just be confident
so..whats ur favorite drink?? oh yah?? mine too!! how bout we go have a lil sumin of that good drank!!!
trust it works
Buy her a one drinks then start a conversation with her…
my personal favorite… bichi! wana a beer? ha… to be honest woman in bars are easy to aproach but it also depend where and what you find her doing. i don't hook up with girls in bars, i go with my girls there.
Know how to talk buy drinks smell good and be NOT BE OR ACT DRUNK !
just be confident and appear to know what your talking about even if you don't, ask her if she like… (certain interests you have), plus if she likes you she'll ask you questions too, and the conversation will start to flow, try and be funny but dont try too hard so that you look stupid, and just relax, if all else fails… drunk girls in bars just lean in for a kiss!!!
Just smile and ask her about herself. Woman like to talk about themselves and feel men never listen.
Compliment her hair or eyes. And keep your eyes there. Woman do not like men to stare at their boobs.
Ask her for her phone number. Say you would like a chance to talk later at a place not so noisy, perhaps over dinner.
Call her in 3 days to set up plans for the weekend. You do not want to look like a stalker or desperate.
Good luck.
fake confidence! if you dont look confident youll jus come across weird, but DONT be cocky,theres nothing worse than a cocky guy,jus be nice but not creepy nice! say hi and introduce your self! and mabey get a friend to go over with you to keep the conversation going and to make you more relaxed,then when you feel more confident get your friend to leave, ask questions like were there from, r coment on the music! idk? hope it helped
The zen secret is that if the woman WANTS to be approached, she will make it easier to "break the ice." If she doesn't, then that resistance will cancel all your best efforts.
To the extent alcohol is involved, offer to go up to the bar and get her whatever she wants, so she doesn't have to.
People of all varieties LOVE to talk about themselves, so whatever you can say or ask that gets her talking — and rambling — is good. Ideally, she'll talk 90% of the time, you'll listen and the end result will be that she thinks you are a great conversationalist who "really understands."
As long as you're not paralyzed by it, your comparative shyness will give you credibility compared with guys who talk a mile a minute but are obviously "too into themselves."
the best approach from a woman's perspective is when a guy confidently comes up to me, puts out his hand and says "Hi, I'm (your name)." Then he might offer to buy me a drink, but only if my drink looks low or I don't have one in front of me. If my drink is full, just start a conversation. Don't say lame things like are you from here or do you come here often…. instead, ask interesting things like, do you like this bar/club? do you know the person hosting the party?
some cool pick up lines i picked up while surfing the web
all are equally lame, but cool lol
If u were my homework I'd do u on the table
Excuse me do u have a band aid because I cut my knee falling for u
I put the STD in stud now all I need is u
I lost my teddy bear. Will u sleep with me?
Roses are red, pickles are green I love ur legs and everything in between
Let's do math add a bed, subtract our clothes, divide your legs, and multiply
Excuse me but could u help me with my phone? I can't get it to work, I think it needs ur number
I wish u were a poster so I can nail u to the wall
Hey I lost my virginity can I have urs?