I’ve tried approaching women at bars, clubs, etc. Judging from the response I have gotten, I am approaching them in the wrong way. How do I properly approach a woman?
I’ve tried approaching women at bars, clubs, etc. Judging from the response I have gotten, I am approaching them in the wrong way. How do I properly approach a woman?
Those women you are approaching are being hit on by so many other guys doing the same thing as you, you have to be original and go in their not only with confidence, but a really funny original opener. Personally, I’d just go up to them and make up a story. Just tap them on the shoulder, ask them, excuse me, but do you think Im gay? She’ll laugh and go why? Then say some black guy tried hitting on you a few minutes ago and said you had a nice ass and now you are worried you give off gay vibes, and ask her what about you makes her think you might be gay. Then you can get a conversation started. I use this one a lot but I do have better than this.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D42WgM0xYNQ
Quit going to bars and clubs if you want a relationship…..however if you are looking for a one night stand then stick to those areas.
Don’t approach them at a bar or club, they will just think you are trying to get into their pants. Try other places and treat them like a friend at first don’t expect to get them in the sack straight away.
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The biggest mistake guys make is trying too hard. Don’t use lines on a girl – we’ve heard them all and every one sounds ridiculous. Just be yourself and try not to sound like a stalker, like don’t ask for her number in the first 5 min. Walk over, smile, ask her if she’d mind if you buy her a drink and you’ll be able to tell from her reaction if she’s interested. If she doesn’t seem to be into you tell her it was nice to meet her anyways and move on. Don’t take it personally. Women turn guys down for all kinds of reasons that have nothing to do with the way he looks, talks or sounds. There’s someone for everyone and if she’s not into you don’t waste your time. Move on and be polite about it. If she accepts the offer start by asking her questions about herself. Where she works or goes to school, what she likes to do for fun…nothing too personal. Be yourself because girls have radar for insincere men. We know when a guy is genuine or when he’s just trying to get in our panties. That’s all ….not simple but really not that difficult if you’re being real.
When girls go to the bar or club, we’ve met so many creepy guys at the bar that we just like to go out to get free drinks or dance with you, and have funny stories to talk about later…. After a few trips to the bar and after having given out our numbers when drunk, we learn quick that the bar is not a good place to meet worthwhile guys.
If you are a normal guy, you could just go up to a girl and ask her to dance, and make small talk with her and if she feels you’re decent, before you know it you might end up with her number. Or a funny story works, or if you’re with a group of friends and start including a girl in a conversation.
Honestly though, girls quickly learn that we will never meet a decent guy at the bar…. we end up getting to many creepy texts from ya’ll the next day and sometimes for weeks to come! !