Aside from dating websites and apporaching women, are there any other alternatives for men to meet women?
I don’t trust dating websites nor do I trust approaching women shall I risk rejection.
Is having your friends get girls for you an alternative? What about approaching a girl with a group of friends?
I’m 20. Up to I graduated, I wouldn’t let anyone get close to me.
Take a class (or join a club) that is both interesting to you and will attract a female demographic. As long as you like the activity, you will have fun and meet people. Just be sure not to take something that only attracts dudes – for instance, auto mechanics is interesting but you will probably won’t meet a lot of women there. Try a writing workshop, a yoga class, art class, join a volleyball league. These activities usually have lots of chicks. Also – make sure you are there for the activity too – if you make it obvious that you are only there to meet women, you’ll come across as a creep.
Try this link to find activities in you area:
http://www.meetup.com
Good Luck.
I’m going to assume you’re out of high school, so your idea of "having your friends get girls for you" is just silly. Rejection is part of life. You will not meet anyone worthwhile without risking it. It’s not the end of the world. Get some confidence and put yourself out there like the rest of us do.
Sounds like you need to work on yourself before getting into a relationship.
Overseas travel might work. I hear the women will approach you, or at least act friendlier than what you’re probably used to in the West.
What do you love to do? Go there and meet women.
No, I don’t mean the nudie bar.
Bring a rose with you, and give it to a girl 20 minutes after you’ve chatted her up.
Well, you could ask for a friend to give you the phone number of a girl friend of his that isn’t his girlfriend then start texting this girl so that she can become your girlfriend. But that’s the sort of stuff 12 year olds do. Just get in their man, seriously, you can’t gain confidence without facing your fears in the first place, even if you embarrass yourself you’ll be the better from it.
Lots of good advice so far so I’m just going to throw this thought out:
Women love to come to the aid of helpless men.
There are so many things that women can do better. If they see you struggling with a domestic project or a chore (and you look unscary), then they may approach you to offer help. Get going!