Dating Questions and Answers Part 2
Hey Mike,
Just wanted to give you a shout on my progress since I completed your Real World Bootcamp a couple of months back.
Ever since your Bootcamp, I’ve been focusing on your principle of using the least amount of game possible.
And I’ve been pulling off some crazy **** lately with it. I’m now able to be “direct” with girls and yet it’s as if they often open up immediately upon me starting to interact.
I think the analogy that’s best for this is that when you are a race car driving at 200 miles per hour, you don’t make huge turns with the steering wheel, rather you make fine adjustments- and the better you get at this game, the more “speed” and power you have from the get-go, from anything you do, including your body language, your sense of humor, your dominance, etc, all this stuff become super-charged.
And so therefore the focus is more on fine calibration rather than anything extreme. But this doesn’t mean it takes less skill, rather it takes more.
Every word you said about the power of the tiniest of subtleties in body language and tonality and thoughts, it’s true. Seeing is also believing, as you showed me when you went direct for the girl in middle of her friends at the club.
The funniest thing though is that “minimum game” is really maximum game, it’s just because really what is happening is that you are using your best game, your best self, so very little is necessary. And therefore doing any more than that seems like the guy is trying hard, it would be the equivalent of a girl who is a knock out stripping for you all day, you’d start to think something is wrong with this person, she’s so sexy but never stops, never chills out.
This is definitely where your bootcamp has helped me the most, because it’s allowed me to experience and witness the frame of “not trying to be the entertainer” while still being the most dynamic guy she has ever met. It’s a very subtle difference that makes all the difference between being the clown and being the man, but it’s the most important difference in the world.
Also, simply by becoming so damn comfortable with physically escalating, women are disarmed as well, it’s as if because it’s so natural to me now, it’s natural to them too, it’s similar to how a dog can sense comfort or fear in the owner, and like another reader wrote to you, I mean this not in a disrespectful sense, but a basic sense of human nature. The comfort level you feel yourself is a massive turn on for women in this area. All I can say is, for any guy who doubts how physical and sexual women are, they are more sexual than I could have ever imagined, and this in itself makes me more calm about escalating without making a “big deal” about it.
I think guys really need to realize that the way to get sexual is to start off sexual from the get-go, the sexuality should be there in your voice, your humor, your proximity to her, without being needy- and by playfully pushing her away now and then, you show that you are not needy. Whenever I do this, I find that women flip around from being in “hard to get” mode to being in “chase this guy” mode.
They begin to get touchy feely with me, they start asking me what my name is, they start smiling and just getting all girly. It becomes clear that I’m making her day and that she wants more. It’s awesome and of course it puts your confidence into high gear.
Also, regarding the minimum game, I can definitely see how being the opposite at first – a little over the top – as you first had me going at the beginning of bootcamp was important for my development, because at first I was too concerned with what other people thought, I was too introspective, too quiet, too afraid to even begin to “unleash” my dominant and my fun side!!! After getting me over this hump, it was only then that I could appreciate the refinements to “minimum game”.
Peace,
David S. Calgary, Canada
***MY COMMENTS***
Thanks for the props, man. The bootcamp is a very personal experience, as each guy is different and the program is tailored specifically for his needs and goals.
That’s one of the reasons the bootcamp is One-On-One, this way my entire time is spent with you and only you, so that you can get the benefit of complete personal attention for every second of the bootcamp.
And I love your comments and analogies on using “minimum game” – they’re BANG-ON, pardon the pun.
And if you are reading this right now and would like to bring YOUR game up to par so that women are CHASING you rather than playing hard to get, then it’s time you TOOK ACTION by getting my Seduction Mastery Apprenticeship Program CD Set.
You will find that this program gets you RESULTS. Listen to it ALL, and APPLY it. If you are a man of ACTION, you will find that this program is light years ahead of traditional dating advice.
I spent the last three YEARS developing this program, to really figure out on the deepest levels what women actually respond to, and to then distill this information in a way that ANY guy can both UNDERSTAND and also USE to GET the woman or women he desires INTO his life and INTO his bed.
Get yourself a copy of my SEDUCTION MASTERY APPRENTICESHIP PROGRAM CD SET at:
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Till next time,
Michael